We all want to have a right partner in our life, who doesn’t? We meet so many people in our life and spend time with them. No matter what, human is a social creature. But when it comes to choose your life partner, we need to take this matter seriously. Remember guys, you might get many girlfriends in your life, but I bet, every guy has an unique image for his would be life partner. Especially, if you live in India where the society supports arranged marriage system and don’t appreciate the idea of love marriage much. If you ask me, I must say, we should marry a person who you think would be best for you and you feel from inside and say; “Yes, she is my woman.” I have many married friends. We generally talk so much on the weekends, so sometimes they share their experiences, feelings, pain, happiness. Remember if you want to learn something truly, then you have to be with the right person first. For example, if you are thirsty, then you need to find a source of water. Water does not come to you itself!
Sometimes we really need to take things seriously and act according to situations. Well, you might be thinking now, ‘I already have a girlfriend, now what?’ Sure! you have a girlfriend, but is she really right one? Does she deserve to be your life partner? Would you be happy with her? A person should think thousand of times before getting marriage and choosing a woman who might be his better-half one day. Just one wrong decision about choosing a wrong life partner may lead to some unpleasant situation. Your life might become hell, or who knows you might meet a condition like, Divorce?” It is too much happening nowadays, now even in India. I am not talking as a pessimistic person, I will soon hit my bottom line. So the main important thing is that, “How to know that she is Right woman in your life?” Take it from me- when you’ve found the right woman, your life will change. Too often we’ve analyzed who that perfect partner will be, despite ignoring the reality that we too are imperfect. When you get the right woman in your life, you start feeling some interesting things in your life.
Let’s talk about such obvious things that happen in people life when they are in company of right partners.
1. If your partner is really true, you will start sharing an unique experience. Your life changes gradually, you will start enjoying things. If you used to be an antisocial guy or irritated person. If your partner loves you really, your personality will be changed. Because love works like a medicine. Love is a healer. And if your partner is a true lover, their love can purify your soul and remove all the pain and unpleasant memories from your life. If you feel the same in your partner company then, I must say; “You’re with the right person.” He/she is your true soul-mate. 
2. Once you are with the right partner, you will start learning things from each other. You learn things from each other’s experience. Because true partners always share things, no matter, sorrow or happiness, they never leave each other. They work like a company, and they become one soul in two bodies.
With the right partner, you will be open to receiving their message and attentive in what he/she has to say. After all, you are going to spend the rest of your life learning from one another.
3. As time goes, you will start building a trust on each other. It’s not that common trust which you do on your friends, business partners etc. I am talking about an unique and a deeper level of trust.
When you’ve found the right woman, you will have a mutual understanding of one another. You will both be honest with each other because it’s the right thing to do. The right woman will respect you so much that she will be honest and forthcoming. And as the result, she will expect the same from you.
4. If she is your right life partner, your love will start growing day by day. Your everyday will become a special day. Because the right partner is in life, no matter, he or she, like a healer, and they heal your wound. If she truly loves you then her love will cure every bad things, but if love is not true, then love can be poisonous too. There is nothing good or bad than love.
The more you get to know the right woman, the more you will love her for who she is. You accept her imperfections and she accepts yours. As you continue to experience more of life together, your love will continue to thrive right along with it. Love has no limits or boundaries and the right woman will prove that.
5. Once you are with the right woman, you start laughing, I did not mean, you would laugh like a crazy. I meant to say, “You’ll start enjoying your life.” Because laughter really is the window to someone’s soul. I have never seen a person laughing when they are in pain. People laugh if they are really happy. And if you are in a relationship then your partner plays a big roll in your life. 
6. The last thing but not least I want to mention is, ‘Encouragement.’ If she is the right partner in your life, she will encourage you a lot. She will never let you down or get insulted anywhere. She will work like a shield and protect you.
The right woman respects you as a man. You respect her as a woman. The right relationship requires just that- a mutual respect for another person as your equal. If you love someone, just don’t get obsessed or crazy for her. And you don’t have to behave like a henpecked. Don’t just let her test only your qualities, you should test her too. After all, you are going to live whole your life with this person. No matter, how rich you are, or tempted to buy things for her. Just avoid gold-diggers. I bet, no matter what how much love she shows, but if she is a materialistic woman, she cannot be a right life partner. Ask her, for what she loves you, and what is there in you which makes her crazy for you. One right partner can make your life, and one wrong life partner can ruin your life forever. So be smart and choose wisely!
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