If you are confused about the girl who you love whether she loves you truly or she is just playing games with you. Then you should really read this article. After reading, I am sure, you will get some good and nice ideas and kick the cunning person out from your life. It is not a rocket science, you just need to understand the situations and observe her ways to treat you. Determining if she seems overly confident, figuring out if she's manipulative, and deciding if she treats you like a trophy will help you determine if she's legitimately into you or if she's the predatory type.
If you find that she looks overly confident, I meant to say, when a girl treats flirting like a game or seems very confident, she may not actually be attracted to you. That doesn't necessarily mean she's purposely trying to hurt your feelings, as she may just be a flirtatious type of person.
Girls that are actually attracted to you will generally not treat flirting in a lighthearted manner. They'll likely be nervous, even if they're normally confident. When one is in love, you usually feel like tiny mistakes may ruin the entire relationship, and of course, feel tongue-tied around the person you're attracted to. While some people are more confident than others, and may find courtship easier than others do, few treat it like a simple game. Don't take this point as proof that she's not interested, but keep it in mind.
You just need to watch out her behavior and observe her words seriously, for example, how she treats you? Does she display herself to you like a trophy, and treating you like a prize rather than a person?
If she frequently sulks when you disagree with her or tell her you're unavailable to do something with her, or behaves in other manipulative ways, she's likely just using you for some ulterior goal (i.e she keeps you for as long as you complete her homework, buy her clothes, meals, etc.). Yes, make sure, how she calls you , or when she calls you? For what reasons she wants you to be with her. You just don’t have to be blind in her love. Just be smart and understand her behavior. Just make sure that she is not enslaving you in the name of love!
Girls will usually discuss boys they have a crush on with their friends, especially if their crush asks them out. Even shy girls will unlikely deny being attracted to you once they're sure you like them (which you presumably do if you ask her out). If she denies dating you when talking to her friends, she likely wants to leave herself open for a "more ideal boy", and will ditch you when a more suitable man courts her.
Girls sometimes like to keep their new love interests out of the spotlight in the event that you have no interest in them. However, once you're dating and everything is exclusive, there is no reason she should be worried to discuss you with her friends. So if she does not like to talk about you with her friends, or she feels down to introduce you with her friends, then she really does not love at all. She is just using you.
It's normal for girls to be shy around their crush, but once you've gotten to know each other, she'll likely open up to you. Few shy girls have "truly shy" personalities; most are simply extremely cautious girls. Once Some girls like to have an equal/dominant role in the courting preceding a relationship, which is perfectly fine. Still, regardless of how confident a girl is, they usually prefer the male to initiate the courtship, be it because they like a dominant male, or because of social norms (many western cultures expect the male to court the female, and not vice versa), or because they don't want to emotionally invest themselves in you before they're sure you like them. Because of this, if a girl seems to throw herself on you, she may either be the type that gets entertainment from being manipulative, or she's looking to use you for some other purpose.they know you're not trying to manipulate them for your own entertainment, they'll usually reveal a more flamboyant, outspoken personality that is reserved for their friends. It’s better to have no girlfriend rather than having a fake girlfriend who does not love you at all, but play with your feelings and use you like a toy. Be smart and get to know her true colors first!
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